I lived overseas for nearly 30 years. After returning to the
United States, people often asked me,
“What is it like coming back after so long?”
A number of times I’ve answered,
“It’s
a different country than the one I left.”
“Duh,” you might
say, “that’s profound.”
Let me explain.
In a word, it seems rules are replacing our freedoms.
When I was a boy my neighbor’s black Labrador, “Midnight,” roamed the block. He always
knew where home was. He kind of had a relationship with everyone on the block. I
remember the day he and “Joey,” the
big collie at the end of the street, got in a fight. In a way, “Midi” was our dog.
Last week my brother-in-law told me about local leash laws.
If a dog is running free, that person is liable for a hefty fine. What’s the
problem? Isn’t it good to protect people from belligerent dogs? Yes, - but a
little bit of our personal freedom has been chipped away.
Rules replace relationships and self-responsibility to do
right. They force desired behavior.
By the way, I’m not against rules.
There are building codes, fire codes, motor vehicle
inspections, garbage recycling rules, background checks for employment, …
commissions, agencies, councils, forms, waivers, ad nauseum.
You must yield to
a pedestrian in a crosswalk. There is no satisfaction of doing it out of kindness
because it’s the right thing to do. It’s only possible to break the rule, be glared
at, or worse.
Is there virtue in doing what is required?
Today many people want smaller government, because more
departments means more spending. But more departments also mean less freedom.
Before my decades overseas, Americans were more governed by
inner moral absolutes than now. Admittedly
it had been waning for a long time even then, but society held a broad (if
imperfect) consensus about right and wrong. It was the Judaeo-Christian ethic. We
didn’t need as many laws because people broadly agreed about what was right.
Today we make laws.
If we can’t agree about what is right or wrong, then we have
to make rules to protect individual rights. More rules reduce freedom. I’ll
never know the
“Midnights” of my
block unless I go to the pet park. The focus is on protecting my rights by
legislating behavior, not on freedom and responsibility to choose to be loving.
What’s the spiritual lesson in this?
In the Bible, Paul wrote,
“For if a law had been given which was able to impart life, then
righteousness would indeed have been based on law.” Rules do not
“impart life.”
The more rules we make, the further from real life we get.
If we’re guided by an inner ethic based on the common good,
of which the biblical Christian ethic stands out unique in the world, then just
a few rules will suffice.
That is one difference I see in the United States now. We are exchanging our freedom for rules.